Most feminine gay guys have gender identity disorder but were shamed from wearing womens clothes or doing feminine things as a kid. Without the shame the rest of them will end up Male to Female trans. The rest of the gays had some sort of sexual abuse in early childhood.
Todd K Autman. I think Id be considered a power bottom. Doc Hogan.
Sweetie Fernandes. Mary Melendez. Juan Sebastian Bottazzini. Proves my point gays are absolutely devoid of substance. Josh Whitfield. Giggle Snork. Michael Cooney.
Steve K. Efraim Kristal. Joe Conley. Top and bottom, how heteronormative.
Good for you. Most gay males end up where you are right now.
Too bad it takes some so much time. Lee G Peters.
Marry me Robert. Totally love your response.
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You're not alone. Physicists finally explain why your earphones are always tangled. The end is nigh! Also, double-sided dildos would be kinda weird, haha. I have so much fun with the two guys riding a double-ended dildo config on our backs and ass to ass that I think it might be some kind of fetish. Throw in some jocks, socks, and a bottle of poppers and I am shooting over my head.
That was a total surprise when by accident a dude and I ended up in that position Adding a toy would have been just insanely pleasurable but none was handy. I dated a side guy before not into anal at all and it really didn't work out for me Sex just got incredibly boring after a while, even though the chemistry was there it just wasn't satisfying. Maybe what you guys needs is a friendly top to come over and plow your asses every now and then.
If your relationships is ok otherwise, that may just work. Can you explain to me what you mean by boring? I'm not being judgmental, I just really don't understand this mentality and want to know it better.
For me sex doesn't have to be amazing, I just need to have it and very often, I just look at sex as an obligation of being a human; you build up testosterone and need to release. Almost no different than taking a piss. I think we just have very different viewpoints. I have sex for fun, sure it's a release but it's just The boring part with him was that it was just not enough to satisfy me. He was a great kisser, nice body, nice guy, decent blowjobs. Refused to go anywhere near my butt, refused to let me even rim him a personal favorite and it just got very frustrating after a while.
I am vers. I like to stick my dick in guys butts, or have them do it to me. Not saying it needs to happen every time, but the more frequent the better. I mean at the end of the day we all have different wants and needs.
Ours didn't align so we split up, it wasn't a big deal. I don't think your view is fucked up at all though, dude. I definitely agree with you about buildups and release, but the way you said it just sounded so I guess, and this is going to sound ridiculous, but I kind of view sex as a hobby, like playing video games or going hiking or whatever. It's a good way to relieve some stress, but mainly it's just fun! Before we started dating, my boyfriend identified as a verse-bottom, but admitted he lacked the experience to really say one way or the other. Everything about my personality is bottomy, and it comes through in the bedroom as well.
I'm a complete bottom.
Due to this sexual dynamic, the boyfriend became an almost total top, and he now claims to identify as verse-top on a scale of 0 to 6, 6 being a total bottom and 0 being a total top, he identifies as a 2. We switch it up now and again, but, for the most part, that's how things go. Had my boyfriend dated someone else who was more of a top, it's possible he would have shifted the other way and identified more of as a bottom.
Personally, I think this is likely. I tend to think that your relationship can affect your disposition. So you might find that dating this guy brings out the top in you, so to speak.
Question: Can two bottoms in a monogamous gay relationship make that not only limits our potential but also limits the available dating pool. But believe it or not, sometimes gay relationships don't start with sex. don't know what his sexual role is before your first conversation or your first date. Spending a night with two tops is pretty alluring to a bottom (if I say so.
On the other hand, you might be sexually dissatisfied with being the default penetrative partner during sex. You could try using toys so that you can both experience anal stimulation together. You could try and convince him to be more willing to switch it up with you.
I know he says it's "out of the question"; short of a medical condition preventing him from topping, I don't understand how that is possible. If he's as good a guy as you seem to think, he ought to be willing to top sometimes for you.